Originally Posted by Rynn
Thank you all for the time you took to give me advice on my situation. So far, 6 months later, nothing has changed. I still feel the same way but my husband doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I guess this is just too far outside his comfort zone and I'm unsure of where to go from here.
He sounds like he was never open to the idea of polyamory and now refuses to even have a conversation about it... he's made his stance pretty clear... "No"
While it is possible for someone to radically change their worldview it is also likely that they won't. So it comes down to you making a decision about what kind of life you want.
1. Stay monogamous for an indeterminable period of time in the off chance that he decides to change his worldview
2. State (not ask) that you are polyamorous and that you will now live your life according to X, Y, Z principles.
I don't see what other options you have in front of you.