Originally Posted by SpaceyGirl
The first is how do you decide who the V is in a poly relationship? I've always wondered if this just happens or do you and your primary partner decide?
Two: How do you pick/find other partners? Does the primary partners date the the secondary together? Does the hinge just date and the other primary gives input in the matter?
Three: How does it work if one of the primary pair is bisexual, but the other one isn't?
Four: How do you deal with a poly relationship if they primary pair has children and then decide to open the relationship?
Out of curiosity, do these questions in some way impact your life? They sound pretty general, like you're taking a survey to settle up a bet.
Read through these boards, you will probably glean more information than you will with people answering your questionnaire.