BTW, "getting the green light to cheat" is kind of a self denying statement. If you're telling him you potentially want another relationship, it's not cheating!
If you "trust each other implicitly" how can he accuse you of wanting to sleep around, when he cheated on you for years? Grow up, dude!! God.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37