Oh yeah, I should add I've been with my gf miss pixi 4 1/2 year and with my bf Ginger for 1 1/2. He's also married, been with his wife since the late 70s and they've always been poly.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37