Remember, most people don't post on a message board/forum "OMG! My life is going perfect and there are no problems ever". It's generally used for having others help you find solutions to problems you can't.
But there's a few people on here that have relationships in the double digits. As for me I've just had the 1 year with my boyfriend, when my fiancee and I get married we are at 4 years, my boyfriend and his wife just celebrated 10 years together, and she is in her third year with her boyfriend.
Woodsmith: My husband
Merry: Tig's wife/slave
N8: Merry's boyfriend/owner
Elle: N8 girlfriend
Ruby: Part of the Leather Family
Logan: Leather Sir in the Family
Arc: Logan's boy
Holly: Leather family
K: Holly's sub