Hi and welcome.
Sounds like you have a lot on your plate! New gf, just moved in, with a baby on the way!
If you, Amy, are going to be posting and blogging on this account, good. It is highly recommended if your partner(s) are going to be posting, they create separate accounts. Posting as "we" is extremely confusing for the members to read or respond to.
I'll be interested to read your blog about your journey and especially how it all shakes out with the pregnancy and birth and "adding a fourth" to your triad!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)