Originally Posted by GalaGirl
I might like DH bringing me (coffee with cream and sugar.) But if I try to give him
a golden rule (coffee, cream, sugar) because that is what I like? Instead if bringing him a platinum rule (sugar, black)? He will look at me really funny and not drink it. We are both better off if I get him a (sugar, black).
Then we are both doing platinum rule toward each other. Treating the other one how THEY want to be treated.
Kudos on being able to find a food analogy to make your point in any given situation. However one side effect is that you do seem to have a habit of making me hungry/thirsty.