Hi, I'm new so please forgive me if anything is repeated. I have a few questions about poly relationships.
The first is how do you decide who the V is in a poly relationship? I've always wondered if this just happens or do you and your primary partner decide?
Two: How do you pick/find other partners? Does the primary partners date the the secondary together? Does the hinge just date and the other primary gives input in the matter?
Three: How does it work if one of the primary pair is bisexual, but the other one isn't?
Four: How do you deal with a poly relationship if they primary pair has children and then decide to open the relationship?
Sorry for the length.