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Old 05-21-2013, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Rynn View Post
Thank you all for the time you took to give me advice on my situation. So far, 6 months later, nothing has changed. I still feel the same way but my husband doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I guess this is just too far outside his comfort zone and I'm unsure of where to go from here.
It can literally take years of talking before any actual dating happens. Has there been any movement at all in what he thinks he might be OK with? I know that for me unless I can say yes to something without any reservations I will say no. That doesn't mean that there isn't any internal movement though and that I'm not working towards a yes. Could that be what is going on for your husband as well?

Good for you for bringing up the discussion before you had someone specific in mind who you want to date. Poly is a lot of work even before you start dating other people. Find different ways to approach the subject.
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