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Old 05-21-2013, 09:15 AM
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I do know that for a poly-boy,[and by Extension man], Fidelity in a monogamous relationship may be impossible in that either one fails in providing monogamous affection or ones health appears to deteriorate physically or mentally.
In which case you either negotiate with your existing partner for a poly outcome or break up with them and start afresh with a stated "Poly only" policy up front. You don't lie and sneak around behind your partner's back.

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Anymeans in such case, it is only really possible for him to be happy with you if you accept his nature.
Which in no way means that he's worth making the adjustment for.
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