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Old 05-20-2013, 11:58 PM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by BoringGuy View Post
Yes. "wacky shit" is short for all that. It's hard to partial quote something on the ipod. I didn't think it was necessary to spell it all out since the OP wrote about it right there. It's not like i was making shit up. I think that what the husband is doing is "wacky" and it doesn't read as though the OP likes it much either.
Glad I got it right for once....but as for the part I changed to red...She does say:

Originally Posted by CandyBunnii View Post
I'm perfectly fine with this set up and I try to be random too so he wouldn't miss anything either
So she seems to like it well enough to want to try to play the same game.

I do think there is a difference between trying to pay attention and do things to surprise and please your partner - things that you wouldn't necessarily think of doing if you didn't know them so well. But trying to be multiple people (or the proverbial someone's "everything") - that sounds exhausting.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (23+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (4+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi married female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

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