Thanks Natja! I've found people here to be very welcoming and kind. I hope you found the same at Aven. I'd love to see an Ace group in my local pride parade. That would be very exciting!
Asexual woman married to J, a very sexual/kinky man. I'm unemployed and home alone most of the time so I tend to get a little stir crazy.
J and I are completely new to poly and trying it out to get both our needs met without abandoning our relationship, which works tremendously well on every other level.
J has recently started dating L and says he thinks he loves her. I am alternately happy and terrified about it.