I wouldn't worry about what other people consider you. I mean really. I'm never considered the same thing to any two different people. I'm too 'straight' to be gay and too 'gay' to be straight. Bi, pan whatever, some people go with it, some people roll their eyes. I'm poly to the people that care enough about me to accept me and what I believe I am. To others I am cheating, I am using my husband, I am a freak.
It's just odd that your only question right now is what OTHER people might consider you.
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly.
DH: My husband of 19 yrs and father of 3 teen girls.
DC: LDR of +4 year