Originally Posted by JaneQSmythe
I get the impression that what BG was referring to as "pulling wacky shit" is your husband trying to be different people to you - rather than his authentic self. It seems as though he is not enough for you "as himself" and is trying to keep you to himself by attempting to BE the multiple loves you have had in the past. I don't know that that is viable in the long term...
Sounds like he needs some reassurance that you love him for HIMSELF and that loving other people never meant that there was anything wrong with HIM.
Yes. "wacky shit" is short for all that. It's hard to partial quote something on the ipod. I didn't think it was necessary to spell it all out since the OP wrote about it right there. It's not like i was making shit up. I think that what the husband is doing is "wacky" and it doesn't read as though the OP likes it much either.