Some people are more open than others
I am a very private person, except with the people I choose to be close with. To my chosen family openness and honesty is a big deal. I could understand not getting to meet someone if the meeting included sex, not everyone is in to that.
Personally when partners bock at meeting for more than a hi, ok, bye, I've found that what has happened was my girlfriend has a tendency to exaggerate here and there and that doesn't look so good and comes out rather quick if we sit down and have a moment to talk.
They're just white lies and not malicious or anything that like, just the typical only showing your best side, so to speak or something silly like who really wears the pants in the family.
A lot of times when people open up their relationship, the first years are sort of like phantasy football, meaning that the spouse may be pretending to be Joe Montana, and it's hard for him to stay in character when his wife is giggling as if it's the funniest thing she has ever seen.
Last edited by Dirtclustit; 05-20-2013 at 05:52 AM.