I pretty much met N the way you met your man. Married and when I met N I broke up with ex. We just had a baby 6 months ago. I'm just now open to the idea of N having sleepovers and that's because there baby sleeps all night. If we were still taking turns sleeping all nighters would be out of the question.
So now that he's developing an emotional relationship with someone, is he going to be comfortable with you having feelings for someone else too?