Originally Posted by JustUs
Thanks to everyone for the great responses. It's nice to know other's get the same satisfaction from hearing about their partners experiences and such. I do know it is not for everyone as a lot of people follow the DADT rule, which is great if it works for them.
I wonder how many poly people do not want their partners to tell their other partner about their sex, and how many don't care? Personally I've never had a lover mind me telling another about what we do. In fact, most seem to get turned on by hearing about the other, or knowing I've described some things, to the other. My 2 lovers just want me to be happy, and they know nothing cheers up Mags like a good sex session!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37