I think GalaGirls on to something with the printing it out and handing it over. I have no ability to voice feelings so I write my feelings in texts to my SO. He gets the texts and takes over the emotional train with what I mentioned in another post, our emotional bingo.
He goes though feelings and I say yay or nay on if I feel them.
Either way, IMO, it needs to be addressed.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.