You 2 are looking for another couple? Trying to find a compatible couple is wicked hard. How about dating others singly, not as a unit?
Many of us here use the free dating site ok cupid. It's open to queers and sluts!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37