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Old 05-17-2013, 03:14 AM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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Here's emotional cycle of change done as a picture.

http://nitrofitpt.files.wordpress.co...transition.jpg

Sounds like he was at "happy" and then the "fear" started coming on.

Jealousy:

http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/im...ed_10-6-10.pdf
http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef/p.../jealousy.html

Pitfalls:
http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/im..._Polyamory.pdf

http://www.kathylabriola.com/article...u-in-poly-hell

Perhaps those links give you some insight? Keep talking. Nobody's Opening anything but "Opening in Mind" to each other to just TALK about your thoughts and ideas and whatnot.

Maybe in the end you decide it's just not for you. But have grown closer for the sharing of thoughts. That's not so bad right?

Galagirl
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