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Old 05-16-2013, 11:42 PM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
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I am the "hinge" in our cohabitating MFM Vee. Married to MrS for 17 years, living together for 20. The boys were best friends before Dude and I got together, he was already spending many days/nights here before we got together.

For the first 6 months or so I did have anxiety associated with "balancing" between the two. Now it is much more natural. They tend to have different needs at different times - so things can be "fair" without necessarily being "equal".

We don't have kids - so that is one less complication for us.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (6+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic hetero girlfriend and BFF
MrClean: hetero mono male, almost lover-friend to me, FWBs to SLeW
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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