Thank you to everyone who chimed in on this. I really appreciate it. Things have gotten ugly with Giggles and it makes me sad because I was hopeful that the friendships could be salvaged and hopefully not completely fade. I'm not good at letting people I care about go. I'm still friends with most of my exs because once I care I tend to care forever. Giggles has decided that everything is my fault and that I was verbally too abusive to her. Both Nails and I are completely confused about what I ever said to her that she has found so offensive and Giggles is not elaborating.
I'm exhausted mentally and heartbroken but I'll get through it. Forgot after almost 17 years of being with Nails how much breaking up sucks ass!
Nails: 42/husband married 16 year together 18/straight
Pumkin: 25/my kissy face friend sorta gf
John5: 38/Pumkin'a BF and good friends with Nails and myself
Snuggles: 25/dating Nails and Me
Giggles: 37/the ex-girlfriend
Buzz: 20/oldest son adopted at 2 by Nails
Stitch: 17/youngest son with Nails