Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Can I suggest that as opposed to not fitting in with the group, we just don't fit in with that activity
. We fit in just fine with them doing other activities. I don't perceive it as life altering or polarizing. ...an update is definitely in order
I think that's a great way of approaching it - I have friends with whom I have some interests in common, and not others - I do those things with them that we have in common and they can do the other things they enjoy without me.
If the topic of conversation starts to be limited to those activities, of course, or if I feel pressured to do those things, then that may change how I feel.