Dear Prudence fields a few questions about poly. Read through the whole article and look for the following:
1. a letter about poly and losing friends and possibly family
2. a gay man bashing poly to Prudence because she equated the two as being between consenting adults
3. a wife who cheated on her husband who responded to the situation with opening their marriage....something she doesn't want
4. and of course the hilarious comments made by ignorant and judgemental people about all of us "polygamists"
its interesting reading if you have time