Can you stop any type of moving forward until you have a long talk with her?
What exactly is a "woman like you"? it sounds condescending... No one can tell you if she is playing games or bad at communicating. You need to find a way to communicate or tell her that your not understanding what she is talking about. There is nothing wrong with telling her "I understand the words that your saying" but "they don't make sense to me, please help me understand"....