Originally Posted by Matt
I tell my wife everything these days. She tells me about 60%, but the 40% left is usually a doozy and is revealed over time or by playing 20 questions.
What the person keeping secrets doesn't seem to get is how badly it tears your heart out every time a secret is revealed by force (even if it was something they completely forgot about until you brought it up). They seem to treat it as "Oh well, I forgot about that. What's the big deal?", while your dying inside. You have my sympathy on this.
I wonder if they have already filed this document, hopefully not. I wish you luck with your meeting.