Some of us have problems putting thoughts into words. I know that I often run my posts past DH or DC so they can see if it makes as much sense as I think it does in my head. So I get that babbling happens. (I am horrible and being concise sometimes!) However, it's actually a really REALLY good idea, especially when emotional, to take a break, write a response in word or notepad, step back, and then go over it again.
If you are honestly trying to communicate, people assume that you are trying to communicate EFFECTIVELY. Which means taking advice, or clarifying. I don't think the excuse of "That's just the way I am!" works, in anything to be honest. It's like saying you can't change and what it really means is you refuse to.
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly.
DH: My husband of 19 yrs and father of 3 teen girls.
DC: LDR of +4 year