It was brought up by a mate, who was basically giving me a heads up. He is aware of the whole situation. He works in family court, so he's seen this kind of thing happen. We've been mates since we were 10, and I felt comfortable confiding in him.
It's not the imminent filing. It's the fact that it can be done with or without my consent. It has been brought up since I made that post, and let's just say she did nothing to alleviate the fear that she may try something. Here's what she said, "Hypothetically speaking, what if we were to do that, what would you say?" Yeah, that's not what I wanted to be asked. People wonder why my trust in her varies by the day.
We've made some progress. Nothing to write home about.