Since when its speaking your mind bullying. Since when is calling someone on the carpet on incorporate behavior whether real or perceived wrong?
Google unicorn hunter and you will find that quite a few more people out there besides us meanie pants here on the forums have issue with the mind set of couples who are unicorn hunting.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.