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Old 05-13-2013, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted by pollyanna View Post
right. Since slavery is illegal, they really are just sort of 'gentleman's agreements'. But they do help in that each party is able to define needs and limits and repercussions for the edification of the other.

there are several online references and samples of contracts.
I know I could Google it but was afraid I'd find lots of crappy ones out there and would need to sift through them, not knowing enough about it to ascertain what is standard. Can you point me to some sites that have good contracts, often recommended, considered the gold standard, or anything like that?
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