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Old 05-13-2013, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted by BlazenBurn View Post
Now I am starting to talk to others and he has told me that he doesn't think he is poly. He is okay with me having sex with others but the thought of me having an "intimate" relationship bothers him.
Maybe he feels that paying a second mortgage for you to live next door means you should belong to him.
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