And that is why everyone is telling you that it is the attitude they are "bashing". The couple you are referring to is not unicorn hunting any more at that stage. They are a couple that tries to work it out with a third. But the kind of unicorn hunting couple the others referred to would just kick that third out because their imagined ideal state of a relationship is not reached and start looking for someone perfect again.
When you see again and again that a couple is stating said list Dagferi posted, they are the typical unicorn hunters and the attitude is right in your face. Of course, they can come around to a healthier attitude, but that does not change the innitial starting point.
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.
Last edited by Phy; 05-13-2013 at 05:23 AM.