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Old 05-12-2013, 11:50 PM
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post

I hope you find your way back into a relationship with Derby... I know I'm projecting, but I've always thought of you and her as being at least a little analogous to me and Gia, so to see you break up with her because of trouble with another partner was really saddening. I know there was more going on, and that you were feeling overwhelmed in general, but, yeah, rough stuff.
Yeah, I was one of the one exclaiming how 4 relationships, plus a kid, plus a FT job and a house, plus her hobbies, was too much! Esp with this intense soul searching and fear with Mono. Maybe just a break from the relationship with Derby (Brad)...

I mean, I just moved, and it was a ton of work house hunting (nerve wracking!) and packing, and it's a ton of working unpacking and organizing--it's a big stress in other words, and Ginger has been getting the short end of the stick lately. I knew I'd have less energy for him for a while (even tho we are now living closer, as planned), and told him, and he was just chill, he said no worries. Didn't take it personally. I hope D and G would be as understanding.

I have no advice, this does just seem a voyage of self discovery... but I do care and I want you to love yourself.

Cuz if you don't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love anyone else?--(Rupaul tm)
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62) loving Pixie (poly, F, 40) since January 2009, living together since 2013
Seeing Kahlo (polyish, M, 45)
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixie's Dom/bf for 3+ years
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