Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
I hope you find your way back into a relationship with Derby... I know I'm projecting, but I've always thought of you and her as being at least a little analogous to me and Gia, so to see you break up with her because of trouble with another partner was really saddening. I know there was more going on, and that you were feeling overwhelmed in general, but, yeah, rough stuff.
Yeah, I was one of the one exclaiming how 4 relationships, plus a kid, plus a FT job and a house, plus her hobbies, was too much! Esp with this intense soul searching and fear with Mono. Maybe just a break from the relationship with Derby (Brad)...
I mean, I just moved, and it was a ton of work house hunting (nerve wracking!) and packing, and it's a ton of working unpacking and organizing--it's a big stress in other words, and Ginger has been getting the short end of the stick lately. I knew I'd have less energy for him for a while (even tho we are now living closer, as planned), and told him, and he was just chill, he said no worries. Didn't take it personally. I hope D and G would be as understanding.
I have no advice, this does just seem a voyage of self discovery... but I do care and I want you to love yourself.
Cuz if you don't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love anyone else?--(Rupaul tm)