Thanks for clarifying a bit. It was getting hard for me to feel sympathy correctly, since I didn't really understand the dynamics of the journey too well.
As far as sex, hmmm... seems to me we got a lot more reports of RP/Mono hanky panky back in your first couple years than you may remember. I am glad you're still connecting in that way, at least.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37