Originally Posted by redpepper
I'm not worried about PN. I love him and want him to be happy. If monogamy creates more of that then I will be at peace. He is more of a comfort to me than intense relationship.
THIS makes sense to me. But-it's what you are faltering on with Mono.
Do you see that?
I don't know how or if it's even possible for you to find the path to this sense of confidence with Mono.
But-it caught my eye and I think it's the key to transitioning from what was, to what will be in that relationship.