I don't do lying. Manipulation of facts, failure to share pertinent data, omission of info etc are all forms of lying. Lying is not a component of healthy relationships in my world.
I also don't believe in pretending to be something or have some dynamic other than what I truly have.
I would not be ok with a dynamic where such lies were accepted, much less promoted.
*That said-in case it's brought up I will say, I don't share detailed info about my sex life between partners-it's not an omission of secrecy-we all know that I am sexually involved-but both are straight men-uninterested in the details of the other parties sex life. So if asked I will definitely acknowledge that we had sex-but they won't ask and I don't offer the details.
"Love As Thou Wilt"