Originally Posted by alanred
Most of my family would not even speak to me for a few years. I have a cousin that is dating a guy that is black now and is scared to death to tell our family.
When asked about our relationship we just kinda change the subject and have not openly told anyone yet.
Are the opinions of these openly bigoted jerks important to you? If so, it sounds like you either need to keep your dirty secrets from them or get ready to be outcast by them (again).
Personally I don't associate with people who would judge me negatively because of who I date. If someone decides they want to think poorly of me because of my love life, they can pour themselves a nice tall frosty glass of Go Fuck Yourself and chug it.