Your bf had 3 partners, you, Chatty and his wife?
His wife doesnt live with him, but you do? Or she's chillin in the house somewhere but not hanging our with her husband or you much?
You moved in with him when Chatty moved out? Or she didn't live with him?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)