I just realised, that in America (or at least a fair amount of it), that saying wouldn't actually apply to me. By US standards I'm not quite an adult yet. :P
I retract my previous statement, not ALL relationships are about compromise, but most are. When most people are in long term relationships and their wants/needs clash with one another's they try to find a suitable compromise between the two so that both parties are happy, either that or they break up.
I shouldn't have used the word entitled, that's not really what I meant. I guess I meant I wouldn't want to be a relationship with someone who wouldn't want to help me if I was in pain or struggling, that doesn't mean they have to, but that if it was within their own ability they would want to try.