Natja- Mainly keeping her in my signature as a reference for my blog. I will eventually remove her completely, I have no other reason.
As for the package deal. That was just how it went. It caught all three of us by surprise and we went with it. We made mistakes all of us and I hope we all learned from them. Nails and I talked and right now he's pretty certain that if this happens again the woman will have to either want just me or both of us. He doesn't want another woman and he doesn't think he's poly to the degree of running two or more relationships. Friendships with the possibility of sex now and then is more of what he wants. It doesn't mean that won't change later, it's just how he's feeling for now and how he was feeling for the last month or so.
Nails: 42/husband married 16 year together 18/straight
Pumkin: 25/my kissy face friend sorta gf
John5: 38/Pumkin'a BF and good friends with Nails and myself
Snuggles: 25/dating Nails and Me
Giggles: 37/the ex-girlfriend
Buzz: 20/oldest son adopted at 2 by Nails
Stitch: 17/youngest son with Nails