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Old 05-09-2013, 04:40 PM
ManofDiscovery ManofDiscovery is offline
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Originally Posted by Librarian View Post
It's a comfort thing. Hands down.
I don't think it's unreasonable...have you explained that you're not trying to interfere, you just want to meet him in order to feel more comfortable about the situation?

He's probably worried that you might be aggressive, or difficult with him etc. If he knows that this isn't your aim, that you just want to feel more comfortable about the situation, he in turn might feel more comfortable about meeting you.

Just as you're afraid of the unknown (who this guy is), so is he (who you are).
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