My friend has decided to have a poly sex party. Most of my friends are going and I'm sure will have fun. My definition of poly is one whereby I approach others that I am interested in and they approach me. I like to build loving friendships and see what happens with each of them or with couples. I have a hard time with thinking of this party as a poly event. I talked to my friend at length about this and we agreed to respectfully disagree on this and also noted that we are both on different journeys within our poly experience right now... that all can change of course and we both agreed that life is fluid in these ways.
My friend mentioned the term poly networking as a way to explain where she was coming from and the context behind the event. Not that it was like mono sex parties as everyone will be poly and like minded. I suggested the term poly swinging, but swinging can be a loaded word for some and she wasn't keen on that term
Any thoughts on all this? I am left stumped again about stupid definitions!!!! Geez this shit drives me crazy sometimes!