Originally Posted by nycindie
Awww, it seems like the big poly tribe you often said you wanted is forming itself among the people you love and care about!! A loving family/tribe - isn't that what you always dreamed of?
I say this non-judgmentally and simply as an observation:
Yes, I think you always dreamed of that. However, it seems as if you saw your "poly family" like a solar system, with yourself as the sun around which the planets (your partners) and their moons (your metamours) revolve. Now it seems as if you're just noticing that everyone has their own little solar system.
I'm not trying to start a debate; this is just the way it looks from what i've read, and what i recall.