So glad to hear all of this. One thing I had to keep emphasizing when the husband and I were working on things is the idea of working as a team. Making the team work takes a lot more coordination, communication and team meetings than just assuming someone else will be picking up the slack. Once you can work as a team, life seems so much less stressful.
OMG! Talk about a couple of hard headed oafs
. You guys are going to have to work on that.