Originally Posted by redpepper
yes. Sorry. PN.
I've never really understood your dynamic with PN, but figured you guys were much more comfort based than passion oriented, sexually and romantically at least. Would his monogamy with another be that much of a change for you? It has always read like Mono is the true time intensive relationship, and all others are more part time, or situational (parenting/friends based relationship with PN, etc).
Anyway, you can't reason or objectify emotions. There's no science or long dialogues required to understand what you're feeling unstable about, just a question of how you intend to act. For my two cents, I don't give a rip if you're in a single, plural or no relationship status. That shouldn't define your value, if you think about it.