Well that was the plan
Exactly Boringguy. But MD brought up not being happy with the secrecy. So unhappy that we were talking about breaking it off. I just don't know whether to ignore that and go with the flow. Or recognize that may be a dealbreaker now.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous