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Old 05-07-2013, 12:49 PM
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I also went and talked to a therapist today about the situation. I liked her very much. After I had described how these women make me feel, before I even asked a question about it, she recommended finding a polyamory support group. She also offered to counsel us as a group, although I think that might be a little premature. But she was very supportive.
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You are absolutely correct. If you go back to my original post, you'll notice I mentioned seeing a therapist...
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If I were you, I would look into counselling like now.
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My wife has emailed the therapist I talked to the other day about scheduling a session. After each of us has a few individual sessions, I expect this will turn into relationship counseling. Probably will include U at some point as well. I like my therapist. A lot.



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Therapy is in order... Why did you not seek counselling if trust was already questionable?

...Can you do it without a therapist? I would not advise that at all.
FoL, he has said repeatedly he's seeing a therapist! Why give advice without reading his posts?
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