Originally Posted by Kalea
I am new to polyamory and I wonder-- in the rules of dating...are guys uncomfortable with the women approaching them first?
Some guys will be uncomfortable, but you have to ask yourself if you would be interested in a man who's intimidated by a woman approaching him.
If you turn the question around and say 'would you be uncomfortable with a man approaching you?'...I imagine you would say that it depends on the man, the context of the situation you are in and how he actually approaches you.
The same is pretty much true in reverse.
Are you referring to something specific here that's happened?