Originally Posted by Kalea
You'd be surprised how some guys are like put off by it. Believe me.
Oh I believe you; but some guys are like just not into every woman that throws herself at them.. Maybe that's why they seemed "put off" by your approaching them. It's not the "rule of dating" that says "men don't like to be approached by women", it's the rule of dating that says "not everyone you are interested in has to be interested in you back".
So, yes, THAT rule DOES apply in non-monogamous relationships too. If someone is not interested in you, and you approach them or ask them on a date, they might turn you down.
It isn't a man/woman thing. It's a people thing. Believe me.