Welcome to our forum.
How lucky to have such a nice dynamic in your V relationship. I am also in a V relationship, but we had to get through some rocky years in the beginning.
I hope Polyamory.com is a good experience for you. I have found it to be helpful. Have a look at some of our threads (use search and tag search if desired), and post any thoughts or questions you may have.
Glad to have you with us.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"